India


21
Sep 09

Baths

The hot springs of Vashisht in the foot hills of the Himalayas have been a central part of the local peoples’ lives for thousands of years. The spring has been piped into 3 public baths, which are lined with smooth slate like stone. Jets of hot water shoot out of multiple pipes in the centre of the mountain village and are used by the locals for washing of all sorts: clothes, pots, people. Every morning and evening the centre of the village surrounding the baths becomes a hub of excitement and activity, with people of all ages coming together to bath in the steaming hot water.

Two of the baths are located within the walls of the ancient stone temple called Vashisht Mandir, which is dedicated to the sage Vashisht. Men and women bath separately, and behind the stone walls of the women’s baths, all restrictions of the outside world become void. Saris are removed, and bodies exposed. With the comfortable confidence of women who have been bathing in the company of others since they were born. They work in pairs, one woman scrubbing the other’s back. All is done briskly, and matter-of-factly, while discussing the days events. Like us westerners would wash dishes. No self-consciousness or awkwardness. It seems ironic to me that many of us westerners wear clothes that expose the shape and contour of or bodies, with shoulders, backs or legs bare. However, if faced with a communal, co-operative bathing scenario such as is the norm here, many of us would become shy modest creatures instantly. The opposite seems true for Indian women.

I was a little nervous about joining the women in the temple baths, but curiosity won. The strong buzz of community and the relaxed environment within the bath walls immediately put me at ease. Other than a few hellos and smiles from the locals, I was able to blend into the comfortable darkness of the night, and soak in the wonderful warmth of the spring water. There is no roof above the baths, and no city lights to obscure our view of the stars above. Bliss.

A young girl nearby introduced herself as Deeba and offered me her bar of soap to use. She smiled at me curiously, this funny white girl who is so pale. The sound of loud drumming began somewhere nearby, getting closer and closer. I asked for it’s purpose and was told by a lady beside me-

“Temple. God.” Keep it simple.

We have been enjoying (my big brother) Mathew’s company for a little over 3 days now. Such a pleasure to see him in what has become his “natural habitat” of sorts. Traveling in exotic places that is.

A guy of so many talents, with a wonderful way with people. Sitting on the back of his motorbike, as he guides me through the hectic streets of Delhi, I wrap my arms around his waist and instantly become a little girl, content and secure within the protective shield of my big brother.


19
Sep 09

Hadimba

Today, we visited our first temple. It made me feel better that we were the only other westerners there. It made me feel even better when Gina was stopped by a stunning Punjabi girl who asked politely if Gina would pose for a picture with her and her mother. The temple, constructed of beautifully carved wood and stone, was adorned with horned and antlered skulls. Each May it is used for grisly animal sacrifices, the evidence of which clearly splattered across the exterior walls. Taking our shoes off, I awkwardly rang the bell overhead before being pressed through the tiny carved entryway by the Indians lining up behind us. The smell of incense was immediately overwhelming. The interior was much smaller than the exterior would lead you to believe, just a simple room with stone shrine in the middle. Ducking down below the huge stone mantle to the shrine proper, the source of the incense smoke, I lowered my head in mimicry of the Indians on both sides of me and took huge breaths of the perfumed air. After what seemed the proper amount of time, I stood, paid my ten rupee tribute and was dotted on the forehead by the temple forehead dotter, who also handed me a small pile of what looked like stale rice crispies. I pocketed these, not knowing if they were for eating or burning or some other sacred purpose, found Gina and headed back into the fresh air – feeling thoroughly at one with the universe and thoroughly pleased with myself.

Oh and, did I mention that I can see snow in three directions from the windows of our hotel that costs about the same as a Big Mac? I am a kid, it is christmas.


17
Sep 09

Welcome to India

I can’t sleep. My body clock is all screwed up. I’m lying on the bed staring at the weird stains on the inside of the ‘bedroom’ door, the peeling paint on the wall, and the bare fluorescent light tube, and I have to smile at how loosely the term ‘hotel’ is used here. I’m jealous of Jeff’s deep sleep beside me.

I am feeling a little overwhelmed right now. I can see Diarmuid smile knowingly as he reads this. Arriving into the streets of Delhi at 11 at night after 53 hours of travel, stopping in 5 time zones, and the rapid changes in cultural surroundings have fried my brain.

Everything seems so surreal right now, like we are starring in our own movie – Slum Dog Millionaire II – The epic sequel. I had been forewarned that, as a big softy, I would be in danger of having a meltdown when confronted with all the poverty of India. At this point I feel cushioned by my own zombie-brain state. The Indian people seem like characters in my movie, all busy playing their roles. They have all clearly been rehearsing, and I feel inadequate and awkward around them. I wish I could remember my lines.